Category: Emotional and Social intelliegence

I believe ideally, the place to share the deepest form of love and nurture is within the family.

Unfortunately, it is also the space that we are met with the most profound challenges, hurts, disappointments and heartbreak. How do we rectify, reset and rebound with courage, faith, resilience and respect?

I believe by celebrating our strengths, accepting our imperfections, limitations, finding humor, forgiving our mistakes and increasing rising skill we can repair and rebuild.

I believe families have the opportunity to embrace core values, vision and skill building in an intentional way.

“When we know better, we do better.” Maya Angelou

What is the Quest for Families?

Quest for Families is a 6 week to 6 month or even year program that provides counseling, resource and support in order to heal, rebuild the most fractured of families. Services such as:

Multi-generational family counseling

Joint parent/child play therapy

Parent Education and Emotion Coaching for Parents

Groups for children and teens

What is the process like?

  1.  Discovery Session: We meet together to learn about the needs and challenges within your family.

Common issues include:

Issues involving the developmental or  social challenges their children or teens are experiencing

Intergenerational communication problems

Divorce or transitions within the family.

2. Customized Plan: We create a plan for family counseling specific to the needs and goals determined

3. Best Fit:  Family members are seen through the modality that is most fitting.

4. Pre and post Assessment: We measure the progress made during   the duration of our work.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What is emotion coaching, you might be wondering?  Emotion coaching is a program designed by the Gottman Institute for parents of children. It is designed to increase empathy, connection, and effective parenting.

Emotional Coaching is based on the research done by Dr John Gottman and joined by Julie Gottman, Clinical Psychologist, Co-Founder of the Gottman Institute on emotional intelligence and its effect on children; tracking how they performed in school, related to their peers, how appropriately they behaved socially and how they related to their parents. Emotion coached kids were more successful as adults on measures like peer friendships, gainful employment and academic performance.

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“Forget your perfect offering. There is a crack in everything. That’s how the light gets in” Leonard Cohen

How many of us have seen Season 1 and 2 of Big, Little Lies, or have read the book?  Wow… it seems to catch on like crazy for some reason.  Of course, the brilliant cast, excellent production of a powerful story of such suspense and complexity is without a doubt. The unfolding and tragic weaving of stories of abuse, violence, and tragedy command our hearts, intrigue, and pain. Each character brings forth such a compelling story.  (more…)

I was introduced to a friend of a neighbor in our new “digs” recently. I was taken with the question, what do you do? I paused and thought upon that question, usually so easy to answer with my usual professional credentials and response. This time,  however, I was truly struck by the existential challenge. I have thought long and hard over the last couple of days and pondered the answer.  What is it I really do and why do I do it?

The answer in and of itself sheds so many layers of complexity, specialization, and ego in order to find the simple kernel of truth.

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